Too many emoticons and text: what kind of correspondence do guys not like

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Too many emoticons and text: what kind of correspondence do guys not like
Too many emoticons and text: what kind of correspondence do guys not like
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Text messages are not just a certain number of characters sent to someone to read. When compiling the perfect text, there are many rules to remember! The art of texting can be tricky; we may not realize it, but each of us has our own habits associated with it. Some texting habits may be a reflection of our own personality, others more universal, "external". Some of them are less desirable than others. And some of them make guys wonder if they should hit the delete button!

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Too much text

The ability to communicate clearly is a wonderful quality and a goal for many, but when it comes to writing text messages, it's important to separate different thoughts into separate texts. Don't make the other person feel like they're reading a novel.

Texting is a short and sweet way to communicate. Meaning is important here, so aim to write shorter texts for it.

Unbridled fun

A sense of humor is great, but sometimes it can be accompanied by questionable habits. Some gay beauties tend to hide behind their sense of humor; some base their posts on endless anecdotes, with no other aspect of their personality visible as a result. Try not to show humor as your only quality.

Total omissions

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Your texting partner clearly wants you to be open and honest! If you find yourself having a long or serious conversation via text messages, be careful what you write and don't overuse ellipses; your boyfriend may think that you are insecure about yourself or your desire to communicate.

Also, he may infer your intentions incorrectly, as if you are trying to play a mind game in which you would like him to finish your thoughts; he is not psychic!

Girl bored

We are all very busy and have a lot of things that require our attention, so our time is very important and valuable. Let's face it, we don't have much time for "bored" girlfriends. We all want to chat with someone, but before sending a "bored" text, make sure you know your partner well enough.

Impatience

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No matter how patient we think we are, dating can bring out our other side. There are different stages of dating in which we must exercise patience in different ways. When you write a message, be sure to give him enough time to reply to your messages. Eagerly duplicating text can double your chances of him deleting your number.

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Emoji Queen

Of course, using emoticons in your message can be fun, and your choices can help you understand your personality! Sure, sending messages full of emoji can be a way to show off your creative spirit, but balancing cute little faces and the right amount of words is key to keeping the conversation going.

Excessive use of emoticons can cause different reactions in the other person; he may think you're not in the mood to talk or you just don't want to talk to him.

Unstoppable pressure

Everyone loves fighting girls! An extroverted lady knows what she wants and knows how to throw a party in any situation she finds herself in. However, she has to remember to pull the reins sometimes, especially when texting. In some cases, it can be difficult to gauge what type of person you are talking to when you can't see their reactions.

If you send a text to someone that shows elements of your personality that could potentially be "too strong" for such communication, you may be a little tense with your interlocutor.

Too low self-esteem

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If a guy asks for your number, it means he likes you. He has seen the traits of your personality that he enjoys and he wants to have you in his life; he really likes you.

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Do your best to remember that you've gone through one of the most potentially difficult aspects of dating and you've charmed your boyfriend. This should boost your confidence! Show it off in your text messages.

Anxiety

It's a natural part of life and we all experience it at one point or another. Sometimes just taking a deep breath is enough. Many of us get dating anxiety, and that's completely normal, but it's probably good to let go of your worries early on in a "texting" relationship. You might accidentally scare him by revealing your innermost thoughts too quickly!

Hypersensitivity

We have all encountered people who hang on to our every word. Somehow, they can always find something wrong with what we say, even if we say something completely different.

Sensitivity is important and of course it's a wonderful quality, but there are times when people can seem too sensitive. Sometimes the meaning in text messages can be blurry because it can be difficult to decipher someone's tone or mood. Your boyfriend might feel uncomfortable if you take his words too seriously!

Despondency

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If you're feeling down, it's probably best to put your phone away until the feeling passes, because it's best not to talk while you're in a bad mood. You will end up getting mad at your boyfriend because he didn't react the way you wanted, which is unlikely to be good for your relationship.

Mad manipulator

Expecting a certain reaction to your messages is quite natural, but actively trying to manipulate is not the best type of behavior! If your boyfriend says something you don't like, be honest and let him know why. Lack of candor can potentially interfere with your relationship. If you often try to be manipulative, your boyfriend may no longer respond to you because talking to you is hard work. The same goes for permanent requirements.

And be careful not to delay sending a reply, because your boyfriend may decide that you are not too interested in communicating with him.

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