"You can't say nothing": we were together for two years, but we never said "I love you" to each other

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"You can't say nothing": we were together for two years, but we never said "I love you" to each other
"You can't say nothing": we were together for two years, but we never said "I love you" to each other
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I fell in love with Dan at first sight. His messy hair, stained T-shirt and equally dirty jeans after work were all it took to get me hooked. Well, maybe not really, other than his looks, there were a few other things that I immediately fell in love with.

In October we were on vacation - at that time we had been dating for about two years. Sometimes we talked about feelings to each other, but now we never bring up this topic.

And it doesn't bother me at all.

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Why is it unnecessary to talk about love?

Doesn't bother because actions speak much more than empty words. Every day he proves that he loves me with his actions, and I really appreciate it.

I never wonder if he loves me because I know the answer myself. He proves this to me even in small things: for him the main thing is that I get enough sleep, that I be happy. He takes me on dates to his favorite places in the city and does many other things that make me absolutely sure of his feelings for me.

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Sometimes I tell him that I love him, but more often I also prove it with actions - I think that this is much more important.

I've never been more sure of anyone's love for me, really. The way he cares about me, the way he looks at me while I sleep, the way he talks and listens to me are just a few of the little things he does to express his feelings for me in a non-verbal way.

I believe you don't need to tell someone you love them every day so they know you love them.

The main thing is actions

If you do everything right, you don't have to talk about your love, because your loved one will not even have doubts about your feelings. Of course, sometimes you really want to hear it, but actions always outweigh words.

I know he loves me and he knows I love him and we never have any doubts about it. What matters in a relationship is how you feel and how you express your feelings.

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Why shouldn't you talk about love right away?

It seems to me that society puts too much pressure on people, and they believe that love should be started talking from the very beginning of a relationship, but this is absolutely not the case. Actions speak louder than words, and at the very beginning of a relationship it is too early to talk about any deep and real feelings - first you need to get used to each other and make sure that you are experiencing, and only then say it out loud.

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Do not forget every day, even in small things, to prove your love - this is insanely important in a relationship, much more important than what you say. Although sometimes you can mention your feelings, because for some people it is no less important.

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