Don't call him "the one": what a girl shouldn't do to make a man stay with her

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Don't call him "the one": what a girl shouldn't do to make a man stay with her
Don't call him "the one": what a girl shouldn't do to make a man stay with her
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Even a sincerely in love guy can be disappointed in the girl he likes already at the first stages of the relationship, if she misbehaves. Being more romantic natures, women sometimes make many mistakes, in the very first days trying to dissolve in a partner and not giving him time to figure out his feelings. Here are some tips to help you move from the initial stage to a more serious relationship.

At first, excessive attention will scare even someone who is head over heels in love

Some women go too far, wanting to be with their new boyfriend every second, and end up being alone. If you keep calling or texting, insisting on meetings when he is not enthusiastic, or not finishing a meeting even if he is tired, be prepared for the fact that your relationship will soon end.

There is nothing wrong with a man and a woman spending all their time together, especially when they are already married and have gotten used to each other. But in the first days and even months of a relationship, this is impossible.

Usually, the need for excessive attention arises from a feeling of fear that a loved one will leave you. But if you become too obsessive and clingy, that is exactly what will eventually happen. Give him the freedom to figure out on his own that he wants to see you as often as possible.

Unfounded bouts of jealousy will destroy your relationship

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In the early stages of dating, your new boyfriend will want to bring you into his usual "hangout" and introduce you to his friends. Among them may be girls whom he knew before you, and there is nothing terrible in the fact that he will communicate with them in a friendly way, as usual. No need to be jealous, and even more so start to doubt yourself. If he started dating you and not one of his girlfriends, then he is not interested in them as lovers.

And if you also decide to go from silent jealousy to open and make a scandal, you can be sure - the relationship is over.

Don't call a man "the one" ahead of time

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Even if you realized from the very first meeting that you fell in love with a man like you never fell in love, and that he is in fact the one and only for you, there is no need to rush to talk about it. Not all men are in a hurry to realize their true feelings, and therefore it may take some time until he realizes that he is not just happy and having fun with you, but he really found his love.

If on the very first day you confess your love and dump the load of all your feelings on a man, he, not yet sure, will be afraid to disappoint you in the end, and therefore will hasten to complete this romance.

Don't hide your feelings when asked about them directly

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Everyone has the right to be in a bad mood. And you even have the right not to say anything to the guy if you are not happy, and he asks you what is wrong. But don't say it's okay when it's obviously not.

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Appreciate the moments when a man is interested in your condition and notices changes in your mood. And in order not to discourage him from doing this, answer honestly. If you don't want to talk about what's upsetting you, just say, "I don't want or I'm not ready to discuss this." In any case, it will be better than lying with tears in your eyes that everything is fine with you.

Don't rush to change your social media status

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In today's world, social media is everything and we love to share what's going on in our lives with the world. While changing your status or marital status on a social network might be pretty logical, if you're in a relationship, don't rush into it.

This, again, can scare a man off if he's still not that confident in your relationship. Wait until he changes status himself, or do it on some anniversary of your close acquaintance.

Talking about the wedding is best left for later

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Many women plan their dream wedding long before they meet their true love. There is nothing wrong with this, but sharing these thoughts with a man is worth it only after he makes you a marriage proposal.

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If you start talking about your wedding plans and marriage in general on the first date, chances are you won't get a second date. No need for plans for the future, enjoy today, gradually getting to know your partner.

Everyone needs their own space

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All people are divided into those who need support in bad moments, and those who prefer to cope with their problems alone. If your man is Type 2, let him be alone with his thoughts when needed.

Constantly asking about what's the matter with him, and not letting him be alone, you risk running into rudeness or breaking up the relationship. Believe me, as soon as his good mood returns, he will definitely tell about what happened.

Messaging endlessly is a bad idea

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One message a day is enough. Say good morning, tell something interesting about what happened during the day, or just send a funny joke. Continue to write only if the dialogue starts.

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If a guy does not read your messages for a long time or even read, but does not answer - do not "bomb" him with SMS. There's probably a reason why he can't text, but if you bombard him with messages, chances are he will deliberately stop responding.

Starting a new relationship, you should forget about the ex-boyfriend

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No one likes to be compared to an ex, especially in the early days of dating. Men like to feel special, and if you constantly compare him to your ex-boyfriend, he may want to leave.

And the worst thing you can do is compare them on the outside. Even comparisons in favor of the current guy are better left for later, because he may think that you are still obsessed with your ex and cannot stop thinking about him. So just leave past relationships out of the conversation and there will be no problems.

Don't try to change him

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Most women honestly don't understand that trying to change their men in the early stages of a relationship is the worst idea. Any person will be upset if they constantly tell him what to do and what not to do - especially if it is said by someone who, in fact, has no right to do so. So if you put too much pressure and advise your man too much, he will really think about changes - for example, decide to get rid of you.

Try to accept him the way he is. After all, that's how you liked him at the very beginning.

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